Secrets

Last night I was pretty much frustrated. So frustrated, still, that I couldn't resist to write another post.

So recently my mum found out about my relationships, or so from her words. And she thinks that the aim for me to bring my classmates to church is to let them meet girls.

To get straight to the facts all those guys I bring either have girlfriends or does not want to be involved in relationships, some even told me they came because they simply want to listen to words from God, which is totally understandable - that is the only reason for one to go to church.

Of course I know right away who told her - my bestfriend's mum. She knows it from the beginning to the end, of course with some bits missing, but she promised not to tell anyone.

Well anyone with moral values would know that it is important to keep a promise - especially when it concerns such high privacy. In this case I'd rather keep my relationship status private (well I write it on the blog because no one reads it anyway) or at least not discussed by anyone - with the exception of myself and friends that understand me and the whole situation of course.

So I feel totally offended by what had happened but I decided to ignore it and pretend nothing happened. My mum questioned me twice about who I like and both times I didn't answer of course.

Now I mentioned in another post that friends should share all secrets and feelings with others. Or, better said, share secrets with friends that understand you. I do not share relationship or other pretty private matters with mum because she, as a social worker, would share my experiences with her clients, friends and people in church - and of course sometimes I don't like her to share my private things so it is better to keep them secret from her.